Building Resilience in the Wake of School Shootings: The Power of Open Conversations between Parents and Teenagers

In the wake of the recent shooting death of a student at Bowie High School in Arlington, teenagers across the nation are grappling with fear and anxiety. According to TCU Psychiatrist and Professor Dr. Cheryl Hurd, over 50 percent of teenagers in America fear a school shooting based on various surveys, including those conducted by the National Institute of Mental Health. The prevalence of such events has increased concerns among parents and educators alike.

In North Texas, a series of school shootings and on-campus violence incidents have further exacerbated these fears. Dr. Hurd notes that teenagers feel less empowered due to age-related restrictions and lack of access to safe environments. Recent incidents at Timber Creek High School in Keller ISD have highlighted the need for parents to address these grim realities with their teenagers head-on.

As a mental health expert, Dr. Hurd advises parents to listen to their teens’ fears and allow them to express themselves freely without interruption. She stresses the importance of open conversations to address the escalating fears experienced by teenagers. With societal norms shifting towards increased impoliteness and aggression, it is critical for parents to engage with their teens and understand how these concerns are impacting them effectively.

Starting an open dialogue is essential in tackling these fears effectively, according to Dr. Hurd. Parents should encourage their teens to speak about their feelings openly and honestly without fear of judgment or criticism. By creating a safe space where teenagers can share their thoughts and emotions, parents can help build resilience and coping skills that will serve them well in times of crisis.

In conclusion, as our society continues to grapple with gun violence and other forms of violence in schools, it is crucial for parents to take action in addressing the fears experienced by their teenage children. By engaging in open conversations with their teens, parents can help build resilience and create a more positive future for our youth.